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<title>what is gossip? do you know? ha</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 13:03:47 +0000</pubDate> 
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	Small talk is extremely useful when first meeting others.[10] Actually， one purpose of small talk is not to find out the answers to questions like “How are you?” or “Nice day， isn't it?” but rather to learn whether the person is the sort whom one would like to know better.[11] While talking about essentially unimportant matters such as the weather， life in the office， or how many children—if any—one has， each speaker has the opportunity to determine whether the other is cooperative， interesting， potentially useful or friendly， etc.[12] If a person answers the inquiry about the weather with a grunt or “I hate sunny days，” no further energy need be wasted![13] <br/>与人初次见面时，闲聊是非常管用的。事实上，闲聊的目的之一并非是如何回答“你好吗？”或“天气还不错，是吗？”等问题，而是了解对方是否是我们想进一步认识的那种人。在谈论一些无关痛痒的话题时，如天气、办公室生活或者对方有几个小孩（若对方有的话），谈话者有机会判断对方是否愿意合作，是否有兴趣，是否有所助益或友善等。谈到有关天气的问题时，对方若哼哈一声敷衍了事，或者说：“我讨厌艳阳天，”那就别再浪费口舌了。 <br/><br/>&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&<br/><br/><br/>Some psychologists go further更进一步[23]. They say that the whole point of language is gossip. Our ability to tell stories wins us friends. It makes us respected.[24] It helps us meet the right husband or wife or make lots of money. This is called the “Chat up” theory of language development.[25] <br/>有些心理学家言之更甚。他们说语言的意义在于闲聊。我们的讲故事能力为我们赢得朋友，使我们受人尊敬。这种能力帮助我们找到合适的丈夫或妻子，帮助我们赚很多钱。这被称为语言发展的“攀谈”理论。
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<title>口语要素（61－70） </title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jan 2007 01:47:33 +0000</pubDate> 
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	Sooner or later.迟早会的。<br/><br/>I'll keep my ears open.我会留意的。<br/><br/>It isn't much.那时微不足道的。<br/><br/>Neck and neck.不分上下。<br/><br/>I'm feeling under the weather.(我觉得不舒服/精神不好/情绪低落) <br/><br/>Don't get me wrong.不要误会我。<br/><br/>I'm under a lot of pressure.我压力很大。<br/><br/>You are the boss.听你的。<br/><br/>It doesn't make any sense! (毫无意义！)<br/><br/>If I were in your shoes.(如果我是你的话)
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<title>口语要素（51－60）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2007 01:40:28 +0000</pubDate> 
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	This milk has gone bad.这牛奶变质了。<br/><br/>Don't beat around the bush.别拐弯抹角了。<br/><br/>It's up in the air.尚未确定。<br/><br/>Math is beyond me.我对数学无能为力。<br/><br/>It slipped my mind. 我忘了。<br/><br/>You can't please everyone.你不可能讨好每一个人。<br/><br/>I'm working on it.我正在努力。<br/><br/>You bet!当然！<br/><br/>Drop me a line.写封信给我。<br/><br/>Are you pulling my leg?(你在开我玩笑吗？)
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<title>口语要素（41－50）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2007 01:51:11 +0000</pubDate> 
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	What do you recommend?(你推荐什么？)<br/><br/>I ache all over.(我浑身酸痛)<br/><br/>I have a runny nose.我流鼻涕。<br/><br/>It's out of the question.这是不可能的。<br/><br/>Do you have any openings?你们有空缺马？<br/><br/>Think nothing of it.别放在心上。<br/><br/>I'm not myself today.我今天心神不宁。<br/><br/>I have a sweet tooth.我喜欢吃甜食。<br/><br/>I can't express myself very well in English.<br/><br/>For the time being.暂时
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<title>口语要素（31－40）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jan 2007 01:49:35 +0000</pubDate> 
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	Let's get to the point.(让我们来谈要点)<br/><br/>Keep that in mind.(记住那件事)<br/><br/>That was a close call.(太危险了/千钧一发)<br/><br/>I'll be looking forward to it.(我将期待这一天)<br/><br/>Chances are slim.(机会很小)<br/><br/>Far from it.(一点也不)<br/><br/>I'm behind in my work.（我工作进度落后了）<br/><br/>It's a pain in the neck.(那真是件麻烦事。)<br/><br/>We're in the same boat.(我们处境相同)<br/><br/>My mouth is watering.(我在流口水了)
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<title>口语要素（21－30）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2007 01:47:24 +0000</pubDate> 
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	She never showed up.(她一直没有出现。)<br/><br/>That's not like him.那不象是他的风格。<br/><br/>I couldn't get through.电话打不通。<br/><br/>I got sick and tired of hotels.我讨厌旅馆。<br/><br/>Be my guest.(请便，别客气。)<br/><br/>Can you keep an eye on my bog?帮我看一下包好吗？<br/><br/>Let's keep in touch.让我们保持联系。<br/><br/>Let's call it a day.(让我们到此为止吧。)<br/><br/>I couldn't help it.(我没办法。)<br/><br/>Something's come up.(有点事/出事了)
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<title>口语要素（11－20）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2007 02:51:29 +0000</pubDate> 
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	The sooner the better.越快越好<br/><br/>When is the most convenient time for you?<br/><br/>Take your time慢慢来/别着急<br/><br/>I'm crazy about rock music.<br/><br/>How do I address you?(我怎么称呼你？)<br/><br/>What was your name again?请再说一次名字好吗？<br/><br/>Would you care for a cup of coffee?来杯咖啡吗？<br/><br/>She turns me off.(她使我厌烦。)<br/><br/>So far so good.(目前为止，一切都好。)<br/><br/>It drives me crazy.它把我逼疯了
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<title>口语要素（1－10）</title> 
<author>helen &lt;&gt;</author>
<category>英语小点滴</category>
<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2007 02:11:19 +0000</pubDate> 
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	It's up to you.(由你决定)<br/><br/>I envy you.我羡慕你<br/><br/>How can I get in touch with you?我怎么和你联系<br/><br/>Where can I wash my hands?请问洗手间在哪？<br/><br/>What's the weather like today?今天天气如何？<br/><br/>Where are you headed?(你要到哪里去？)<br/><br/>I wasn't born yesterday.我又不是三岁小孩。<br/><br/>What do you do for relaxation?你做什么消遣？<br/><br/>It's a small world.世界真小！<br/><br/>It's my treat this time.(这次我请客。)
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